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CHILD'S TEN COMMANDMENTS TO PARENTS:
Author:
Unknown
1. My hands are small; please don't
expect perfection whenever I make a
bed, draw a picture or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down
so that I can keep up with you.
2. My eyes have not seen the world as
yours have; please let me explore
safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily.
3. Housework will always be there.
I'm only little for a short time,
please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world and
do so willingly.
4. My feelings are tender; please be
sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me
all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness).
Treat me as you would like to be treated.
5. I am a special gift from God;
please treasure me as God intended you
to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to
live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.
6. I need your encouragement to grow.
Please go easy on the criticism;
remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.
7. Please give me the freedom to make
decisions concerning myself.
Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday
I'll be prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of
me.
8. Please don't do things over for
me. Somehow that makes me feel that
my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's
hard, but please don't try to compare me to my brother or sister.
9. Please don't be afraid to leave
for a weekend together. Kids need
vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids.
Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very
special.
10. Please take me to church
regularly, setting a good example for me to
follow. I enjoy learning more about God.